Does VAWA Protect Men? The Truth About Eligibility

The Violence Against Women Act (VAWA) is widely known for helping immigrant women escape abusive situations. But here’s the truth: VAWA protections apply to all genders. That includes men, LGBTQ+ individuals, and anyone who has suffered abuse from a U.S. citizen or lawful permanent resident (LPR) relative.

If you're a man facing abuse or extreme cruelty—and feel trapped by your immigration status—you may be eligible to self-petition under VAWA. You don't need your abuser’s permission, signature, or even their knowledge.

This guide breaks down how VAWA works, who qualifies, and how Brudner Law helps male survivors in Orange County and the rest of Southern California navigate the process with privacy and dignity.

What Is VAWA and What Does It Provide?

VAWA allows certain noncitizens who have suffered abuse or cruelty to apply for legal status on their own. You don’t need your abuser to sponsor you. Instead, you can file independently and confidentially.

Who can apply under VAWA:

• Spouses of abusive U.S. citizens or green card holders
• Children abused by a U.S. citizen or LPR parent
• Parents of abusive U.S. citizen children (over age 21)

If you qualify, VAWA can help you:

• Self-petition for a green card
• Apply for work authorization
• Receive protection from deportation

Learn more about getting green cards through VAWA self-petitions.

Does VAWA Apply to Men? Yes! Here’s What That Means

VAWA protections are based on relationship and abuse, not gender. This means men can qualify for protection if:

• They are (or were) married to an abusive U.S. citizen or green card holder
• They are the parent of a U.S. citizen child who is abusive
• They are the child of an abusive parent who holds U.S. status

Abuse can include physical violence, but it also covers:

• Verbal abuse and threats
• Emotional control or isolation
• Financial manipulation
• Immigration-related intimidation

See what evidence you need to build a strong VAWA petition.

Signs You Might Be Eligible to File a VAWA Petition

If any of these apply to your situation, you may qualify:

• You live or have lived with your abuser
• You entered the relationship in good faith—not just for immigration purposes
• Your abuser controls or threatens you using your immigration status
• Your abuser mistreats you and you have suffered from one or more of the following: emotional, psychological, financial, sexual, and/or physical abuse. 
• A police report is not required to qualify for a VAWA case. 

Read the USCIS overview on VAWA eligibility and process.

Why Men Often Hesitate to Apply and Why You Shouldn’t

Many male survivors avoid pursuing protection because of misconceptions like:

• “Men aren’t taken seriously as victims.”
• “I don’t want to be seen as weak.”
• “This process must be just for women.”

The truth is: VAWA is gender-neutral. The law exists to protect you without judgment.

VAWA petitions are private and do not notify the abuser. At Brudner Law, we ensure your case is handled with discretion and care, so you can feel safe throughout the process.

Why Work with Brudner Law on Your VAWA Case?

A VAWA petition isn’t just paperwork—it’s a narrative. To succeed, your application needs to present your story clearly and legally, backed by the right evidence.

At Brudner Law, we help survivors of all genders:

• Strategically prepare petitions
• Collect and organize documentation
• Respond to Requests for Evidence (RFEs)
• Navigate the emotional and legal complexities with compassion

We’ve helped male survivors, LGBTQ+ clients, and nontraditional family structures obtain protection under VAWA. You can read more about real outcomes on our testimonials page or VAWA services page.

Preguntas frecuentes

Can I apply for VAWA without my spouse or relative knowing?

Yes. The self-petition process is confidential. Your abuser is never notified or required to participate.

Will VAWA automatically get me a green card?

No. It’s the first step in applying. If approved, you may qualify for work authorization and a green card through adjustment of status.

What if I don’t have “proof” of physical abuse?

That’s okay. VAWA includes emotional, financial, and psychological abuse. We’ll help document your experience in a way USCIS understands.

Protection Is for Everyone

If you're facing abuse—regardless of gender—VAWA may be your path to freedom. You don’t have to stay silent. And you don’t have to stay undocumented.

At Brudner Law, we believe safety is a right, not a privilege. If you believe you may qualify for protection under VAWA, let’s talk.

Contact Brudner Law in Orange County, California today for a confidential consultation. We’ll help you take the next step toward independence, stability, and legal status—with clarity and care.